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Obituaries & Memorials
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by Bruce-Michael Gelbert
January 9, 2009
Amelia Migliaccio
Amelia Migliaccio, Iconic Grove Figure, Passed Away - January 9, 2009
Fire Island lost an iconic figure on January 9 with the passing of Amelia Migliaccio of Cherry Grove and Brooklyn, New York after a long illness. Viewing will take place at Andrew Torregrossa & Sons, 345 Avenue U, in Brooklyn (718/449-1300) on Monday, January 12 and Tuesday, January 13 from 2 to 5 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. and the funeral will be at St. Columba, 2245 Kimball Street, off Avenue U, in Brooklyn (718/338-6265) on Wednesday, January 14 at 9:45 a.m.
A beloved friend to many of us, Amelia was a woman of numerous accomplishments. First arriving in the Grove in 1959, she was a "founding mother" of the annual Fourth of July Grove Invasion of the Pines, participating in the first of these, which took place in 1976. She started a restaurant, Amelia's, on the Grove dock in 1978, and Top of the Bay, with former partner Lyn Hutton, in 1980. She organized the first halftime parade, cheerleading, and singing of the national anthem at the Grovettes vs. the Suffolk County Copettes Cherry Bowl Volleyball Tournament after the first game in 1984. She began the Cherry Grove Pride Parade in 1999 and participated in its "Gay Bouquet" contingent.
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" This Is Your Life, Amelia!" (l-r) Dell Harbin, Amelia Migliaccio, bagpiper, Ofcrs Bob Cappadona & Richard Bishop |
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Amelia had served on the Board of Directors of the Arts Project of Cherry Grove and performed in its shows, including, in the last decade, Panzi and Philomena's "Direct TV" and Sal Piro's "Some Like It Holy," "Class/Reunion," "Way Overboard," and "Panzi and Philomena Meet Frankenstein." Participants in the shows will never forget her camaraderie and encouragement and, perhaps especially, the homemade creampuffs she brought for her cast mates to enjoy.
She was very devoted to her pets, which often included "special needs" cats.
Denise "Dell" Harbin and the Violet Letter fittingly honored Amelia and her decades of community service on September 22, 2007 with a tribute billed as "This Is Your Life, Amelia!" at the Grove Community House. Addressing the assembled, Amelia said, "I have never in my life felt so flattered, so honored ... I just love you all for coming here and doing this."
Rest in peace, Amelia. We shall never forget you.
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December 17, 2008
Maria A. Fallon
Maria A. Fallon, of Sayville, Long Island and Cherry Grove, Fire Island, passed away on December 17 at the age of 93, according to Newsday. She was the spouse of attorney James V. (Jim) Fallon, who survives her and was honored by SAGE (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) in July for defending gay men who were arrested on Fire Island and booked on Long Island a number of decades ago. According to Newsday, Maria A. Fallon was a mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. A funeral mass and interment were scheduled to be held in Sayville on December 20. Joanne Tavis, President of the Grove Doctor's Fund, added, "Jim and Marie Fallon lived in the Grove for over 60 years. They raised their family there and were a very important part of our community. She was in a wheel chair the last few years and you would find him pushing her [in the chair] on the boards."
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(l-r) Cobra, Wynn, Victor, and Peter |
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December 11, 2008
Peter Romano
Peter Romano, beloved resident of Cherry Grove and Greenwich Village, passed away on December 11 after a long battle with cancer.
Peter, who was 87 years old, was, for 61 years, the life partner of Winthrop (Wynn) A. Tucker, former Cherry Grove Homecoming Queen (1992), who survives him.
According to neighbor Ray Baez, who contributed to this remembrance, there are "no funeral plans [but] Wynn would like to have a memorial service on Fire Island this coming summer."
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photo courtesy of
Liz Mangelsdorf / Chronicle |
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August 27, 2008
Lesbian Activist Del Martin - May 5, 1921-August 27, 2008
The world lost a major veteran lesbian activist with the passing of Del Martin, at the age of 87, on August 27.
With her partner of 55 years, Phyllis Lyon, 84, Del Martin was co-founder of early lesbian movement organization, the Daughters of Bilitis and editor of its publication, The Ladder, as well as co-author of the seminal text "Lesbian/Woman."
Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon were the first same-sex couple to wed in the office of San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom, on February 12, 2004, although that marriage and others performed then were invalidated by the California Supreme Court that summer. They were, once again, the first couple to be married, in Newsom's office on June 17, 2008, after the court officially legalized same-sex marriage on May 15.
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July 30, 2008
Gregory (Greg) M. Cheplin - January 11, 1928 - July 30, 2008
"Forever in Peace," says the sign at Floyd's restaurant, remembering Gregory (Greg) M. Cheplin (January 11, 1928-July 30, 2008), of Cherry Grove and Manhattan. Fire Island Q News spoke with Greg's nephew Jeff Lempke, from Delray, Florida, about his uncle on August 31, the day of a planned celebration of his life, taking place in the Grove.
"He was a story teller. He could sit and talk for hours about everything and anything," said Jeff of his Uncle Greg. "He adored Fire Island and this was where he wanted to spend his last days" and, with the help of Ken Stein and Sayville Ferry Service, his family was able to make that happen. Jeff asked us to add a message to his Uncle: "Pookie, you'll be loved forever."
Greg Cheplin was born in Syracuse, New York and raised there and in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. A corporate lawyer, he was a graduate of Yale Law School. He had lived in his Manhattan apartment for 40 years, had first come to the Grove in the late 1950s, and had his house on Beach Walk since the 1970s.
The cause of Greg's death was lung cancer. Two older sisters, four nieces and nephews and five great-nieces and -nephews survive him.
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February 19, 2008
Dan Lanning
Respected, versatile musician Dan Lanning, formerly of Cherry Grove and more recently of Fire Island Pines, passed away on February 19, John DeMarco and Philis Raskind reported.
In the Grove, Dan participated, as musical director, singer and composer, in a number of Arts Project of Cherry Grove and other shows. In "The Cherry Grove 2002 Follies," directed by John, Dan and partner Dylan Ftera performed as the Sherbet Sisters, sporting summer drag and Dayglo wigs and singing Dan's composition, "Ode to Cherry Grove." To Sal Piro's show, "Class/Reunion," during the same season, Dan contributed the opening school choral anthem, "Staying High in High School," and solo, sung by Lynne Tunderman, "I've Got a Crush on My Phys Ed Teacher." Dan was musical director for Rose Levine's July 2003 show, "Everything's Coming Up Rose," at the Ice Palace.
In the Pines, Dan and Dylan were part of a committee that sponsored the Gay Men's Chorus' appearance there last season. Dan will be sorely missed.
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January 30, 2008
Bo (Bob) Perillo
Bo (Bob) Perillo, partner of Tony Bondi, passed away on January 30, Maria Elena Passaretti reported. Bob had long been confined to a wheelchair and, Maria Elena added, "had a wound on his bad leg that would not heal and got septicemia." A wake was scheduled for February 3 at Frederick Funeral Home in Flushing, Queens. Bo usually volunteered, selling raffles, at the Pines Animal Welfare Society (PAWS) benefit, in which Tony performed, at the Ice Palace, in Cherry Grove, each June.
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January 22, 2008
Heath, we hardly knew ye!
HEATHCLIFF ANDREW LEDGER
By Rodney Giles
Heath, we hardly knew ye! Heath Andrew Ledger came into this world on April 4, 1979, and departed on Tuesday, January 22, 2008. A native of Perth, West Australia, he opted as a youngster for dramatics rather than any other activity, bursting onto the entertainment world as a new and exciting heartthrob. It didn't take long for Heath, in his choice of roles, to provide solid evidence of his devotion to the art of acting. His performance as Ennis Del Mar in Ang Lee's 2005 film of Annie Proulx's "Brokeback Mountain" literally transformed the lives of countless numbers of people around the world. Courageously agreeing to a role that many warned him might ruin his career, he portrayed the Ennis character with loving devotion, offering critical suggestions for dialogue change, and being the inspiration for the reversal of the iconic shirts in the final scene. Annie Proulx herself paid him the ultimate compliment saying that he knew Ennis, that "achingly needy" young cowboy, better than she. A life full of potential, tragically cut short, we shall never know to what heights of accomplishment our friend Heath would have attained. We mourn his untimely death, but thankful that his bright light came into our lives in such a powerful, transformative way. May he rock forever in the sparklight of our memories with Jack Twist in his arms.
"Brokeback" fans all over the world received the tragic news of Heath's passing with disbelief, shock and utter dismay. Internet messages have been posted about Heath from all corners. I first received word on Tuesday afternoon when a friend telephoned me and asked me if I had the news on, to which had said, "No." After turning on one of the news channels, I could hardly believe what I was seeing. I'm sure my experience was multiplied a millionfold as word spread.
Among members of the "Brokeback" forums, we had also received news of the impending passing of a very dear friend who was an original member of the largest Internet forum. She eventually passed away in her sleep very early Wednesday morning. This passing sparked the notion among my friends in Denver that we should do a joint memorial for both Heath and Jackie. Yours truly, who has taken on the title of "Voice of Brokeback" from my dramatic reading of the short story, is now going to add "Chaplain of Brokeback" when dear friends gather in Denver on February 9 to celebrate the lives of two souls, one of which was famous the world over, and the other whose love had reached literally around the world.
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December 11, 2007
Allan Bérubé
[photo courtesy of Steve Savage]
Gay activist and author Allan Bérubé, whose historic study “Coming Out Under Fire: the History of Gay Men and Women in World War Two” was published by Macmillan Inc.’s The Free Press division in 1990, died on December 11 of complications from stomach ulcers at the age of 61.
The book inspired a 1993 documentary, “Coming Out Under Fire,” produced and directed by Arthur Dong, with screenplay by Dong and Bérubé, aired on PBS in New York in 1995, and a 2005 musical, “Yank!” by Joseph and David Zellnik, which was presented by the Gallery Players in Park Slope, Brooklyn, in October and November 2007. Active in gay circles in San Francisco, handsome leatherman Bérubé spent a fair amount of time in Cherry Grove not long ago.
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December 7, 2007
Mel Cheren
[left- Mel Cheren & Grace Jones, below- Michael Brody & former life partner Mel Cheren. photos provided by the Fire Island Film and Video Festival]
Mel Cheren, nicknamed ‘the Godfather of Disco,’ died of AIDS on December 7 at the age of 74. He was a founder of the downtown Manhattan disco Paradise Garage, West End Records and, in response to the devastating losses the disco world sustained early in the AIDS crisis, 24 Hours for Life Inc., which raised money for AIDS care and education, and sponsored LIFEBeat, the music industry’s AIDS awareness and research organization. He was also an early major supporter of Gay Men’s Health Crisis (GMHC) and New York City’s LGBT Community Center..
Mel Cheren told his story, and that of the history of disco, in his autobiography, “My Life and the Paradise Garage: Keep on Dancin’,” published in 2000. The book inspired the 2007 film, “The Godfather of Disco,” directed by Gene Graham. Publicity for the film characterized Mel Cheren as “activist, pioneer, [and] survivor.” Among those appearing in the film, and lauding its subject, were AIDS activist and American Run to End AIDS (AREA) founder Brent Nicholson Earle; DJ Junior Vasquez; and Randy Jones, the original cowboy of the Village People. Serving as the opening feature of the sixth annual Fire Island Film and Video Festival, the film was shown at the Community House in Cherry Grove on September 12, 2007.
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December 5, 2007
Bob Kohler
Longtime gay activist Bob Kohler, a veteran of New York’s Stonewall-era organization Gay Liberation Front (GLF), who was still active in the movement here, died on December 5 at the age of 81. Like GLF, Kohler embraced numerous political causes, including the rights of transgender people, prisoners, women, and minorities. Kohler was prominent in the first gay demonstration this writer ever attended, a GLF anti-Vietnam War action in Greenwich Village, in December 1969, which included support for the Black Panthers and for prisoners in the Women’s House of Detention, then located on Greenwich Avenue, off Christopher Street. Late Village Voice gay columnist Arthur Bell, looking at Kohler’s background and the political developments in his life, characterized him in print as “a gritty mosaic of Alice Faye tunes” and gay liberation, a description to which Kohler took umbrage, expressed in a strongly worded letter to the editor of the Voice.
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November 28, 2007
Eric Rebitsky
Sources reported on November 28 that Eric Rebitsky, member of the Imperial Court and a longtime survivor of AIDS, passed away and that a memorial would be held on November 30 at a cemetery in Farmingdale, Long Island. Eric had spearheaded the Court's first Chanukah celebrations. Knowledgeable about contemporary popular music, Eric wrote about it for several publications.
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November 27, 2007
Jane Rule
Lesbian novelist Jane Rule, who was born in Plainfield, New Jersey, died at home on Galiano Island, British Columbia, on November 27. Her novels include “Desert of the Heart,” “This Is Not for You,” “Against the Season” and “The Young in One Another’s Arms.” She also wrote a book of short stories, “Theme for Diverse Instruments,” and the non-fiction “Lesbian Images.” Her groundbreaking first novel, “Desert of the Heart,” published in 1964 and set in Reno, Nevada, was made into a film, “Desert Hearts,” released in 1986, directed by Donna Deitch, and starring Helen Shaver and Patricia Charbonneau.
In 1976, when this writer was assistant manager of the Oscar Wilde Memorial Bookshop, we extended an invitation to Rule to spend an afternoon at the shop, meeting her readers and signing books. She responded, in part, in a letter dated January 14, 1977, “ … thank you for offering to sponsor an autograph party for me at [the] book store. New York has been out of bounds for me since before ‘Desert of the Heart’ came out and I had to deal with what seemed to me quite ludicrous suggestions for publicity from the publishers. I made a decision then to deal with as little promotion of my books as possible, give few interviews, no readings or lectures, and have finally moved to a small island to avoid the increasing public pressure even in Vancouver, which once seemed the comfortable edge of the world. I am the more grateful for bookstores like [Oscar Wilde], which has been so faithful in stocking my books and making them available to so many people. Though I have to refuse your invitation, I can at least take this opportunity to thank you for all you have done and are doing on my behalf.”
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October 25, 2007
Thomas D. "Dan" Chavers
Thomas D. "Dan" Chavers, who was born in Mobile, Alabama and was a longtime resident of New Orleans, who worked for Bell South, died in New Orleans on October 25 at the age of 56, his partner of 33 years, Richard J. "Rick" Caravalho, reported. Photos of Dan and Rick at Mardi Gras appeared in these pages in the past. Dan is and will be sorely missed.
pictured [l-r] Rick, Bruce-Michael, and Dan |
October 20, 2007
Gary Collins
Gary Collins, of New York and Florida, passed away on October 20 at St. Vincent's Hospital in the Village, "after a 6 week battle w/ a strange disease called Castleman's," Charity reported. Gary was a member of the Imperial Court of New York and a dear friend and neighbor of China, for whose hair and makeup he always took responsibility.
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August 10, 2007
Grove's Alfred (Freddy) Scarfone Dies in Florida after Long Illness
[photo courtesy of Imperial Court of New York]
Alfred (Freddy) Scarfone, who owned Tara, on Aeon Walk, in Cherry Grove, passed away in Florida, on the morning of August 10, after a long battle with lung cancer, according to his cousin, singer John DeMarco. Freddy, who lived in Staten Island before he retired to Florida, had been a member of the Imperial Court of New York. "He was a wonderful, loving person and will be very [much] missed," John said, of his cousin, in an e-mail that evening..
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June 10, 2007
Dune Point's Dutch Wavering Dies
Dutch Wavering, [the original] owner of Dune Point Hotel, grandfather, and veteran of World War II, died during the night of June 9/early morning of June 10 in the hospital where he had been for three weeks. He was believed to have been in his late 80s or early 90s.
In her 1993 study, "Cherry Grove: Sixty Years in America's First Gay and Lesbian Town," author Esther Newton noted that, in the 1970s, as "a leader of the Taxpayers[' Association], landlord Dutch Wavering, [became Grove] fire chief, [and] he ordered the Property Owners[' Association] to put an expensive new sprinkler system into the theater," the Grove Community House.
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June 5, 2007
William J. McGraw
William J. (Bill) McGraw, of New York City and Cherry Grove passed away in his sleep at Valhalla, on Doctor's Walk, on the night of June 4/morning of June 5, 2007, at the age of 75, after a year-and-a-half of serious illness, reported John Richards, who had been with him for 47 years. Bill's ashes, sent to John in the Grove on June 10, will be buried in the beautiful garden of Valhalla, where they had lived since the 1970s.
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May 26, 2007
Bill "Violet" Silver
Grove Loses Bill "Violet" Silver, Artist & Wild Cherry Publisher.
Bill "Violet" Silver, who had been for many years a longtime survivor of AIDS, passed away at Beth Israel Hospital's hospice care unit, in Manhattan, on May 26, 2007. He would have turned 60 on September 8, according to Christopher Philips, who was involved in Bill's care.
Cherry Grove knew Bill/Violet best as publisher of the invaluable Wild Cherry, the guide to events in the community; as a painter; and as periodic contender for Grove Homecoming Queen-not competitively, but for fun, in some willfully louche or faded get-up.
Philips told this writer that, in 1975, Bill, who hailed from the Pittsburgh PA area, had been a seminarian and had sought ordination by the Presbyterian Church in Ohio, but had been rejected for being openly gay.
As someone who knew Bill for about 30 years, I can remember him singing lustily at piano bars like Marie's Crisis, in Manhattan, and Cherry's, in the Grove, as well as reveling in the earthier playgrounds of the West Village and the Island.
Bill was honored by CGCAI, the Cherry Grove Community Association, Inc., on August 5, 2006 for his service to the community. On that occasion, pianist Dan Daly saluted him, not only for founding the Wild Cherry and for his artwork, but also for creating the Cherry Grove Garden Club and hosting his annual Purple Tea. "Anywhere you see purple in Cherry Grove, you think: Bill Silver," Dan had said. Escorted to the stage by Homecoming Queen 2006 Coco Love, Bill told the assembled at the Community House, "I love Cherry Grove. I've had to give up the bushes and the best nude sunbathing place-I can't get to them anymore-but I still love Cherry Grove."
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May 21, 2007
Philip Williams
Cherry Grove and New York City's Philip Williams, life partner of Peter B, died suddenly of a heart attack, at his apartment in Chelsea, on May 21. Peter, who is his Executor, is the person who found him there. Philip would have turned 60 in July, Peter told FIQ News.
Philip was a member of the Imperial Court of New York and the Arts Project of Cherry Grove. He was a former Vice-President, then President, and then Chairman of GMSMA (Gay Male S&M Activists), a spokesperson for GMSMA reported. He was involved in setting up the first Folsom Street East (FSE), the Leather Pride street fair, in 1997 and worked on subsequent ones. Philip also devised the striking FSE logo of a white New York City
skyline cut out of a Big Apple in the Leather Pride black and blue stripes, adorned with a red heart. He was the owner of two cats, of the Egyptian Mau breed.
Philip and Peter had moved into new quarters on East Walk just the previous weekend, Leather Weekend in Cherry Grove and, according to Peter (Mr. Fire Island Leather 2002), had delayed their departure for the city, enjoying planting flowers in their new garden, on May 20, in the unexpectedly fair weather. It proved to be the last thing they would do together.
We extend our sincerest condolences to Peter and to members of Philip's family on this devastating loss.
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Spring 2007
Vaunessa Vale
Vaunessa Vale (AKA Vaughn), Miss Pennsylvania 2004, Miss Fire Island contestant and, with Norell Gardner, one of the entertainment duo, the Boston Girls, who performed in Cherry Grove, passed away recently. Condolences to Norell and Vaunessa's other survivors.
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April 18 2007
Lucia Sutera
Photographer Lucia Sutera, known for her photos of Grove individuals and events, published in Violet's Wild Cherry, passed away on April 18, attorney Liz Salen reported. Grove homeowner Angela Ruggiero, Lucia's friend, will be setting up a memorial garden to honor her. Lucia exhibited her work, including photos of Grove theatrical productions, in an Arts Project of Cherry Grove art show for the first time last July.
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February 28, 2007
Activist Marc Rubin Is Dead at 74
Fervent and esteemed gay activist, teacher, and leatherman Marc Rubin died recently after a long bout with serious illness. He was 74 years old and is survived by his life partner of many years, Pete Fisher. Marc was an early member of Gay Activists Alliance, which was founded in 1969; the Gay Teacher’s Association; and, later, ACT-UP.
Marc was co-author, with Pete, of the novel “Special Teachers/Special Boys,” published by St. Martin’s Press on February 27, 1979, concerning ghetto boys and the teachers who help them cope with difficult lives. I concluded a review of the book, in the March 5, 1979 issue of the now-defunct newspaper GaysWeek, “‘Special Teachers/Special Boys’ is a rich, warm, insightful work.”
A role model for many in the movement and beyond, Marc will be sorely missed by all who knew and loved him.
(pictured are: Marc Rubin (center, in lambda shirt, with activist friends at a New York City Opera performance of Stewart Wallace and Michael Korie’s “Harvey Milk,” New York State Theater, April 21, 1995. Photo provided by Bruce-Michael Gelbert)
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February 18, 2007
Early Activist Barbara Gittings, 75, Dies in Philadelphia
Early LGBT activist Barbara Gittings died in Philadelphia at age 75, on February 18, after a long battle with breast cancer. Her long-term partner Kay Lahausen, writer and photographer, who used the name Kay Tobin professionally, survives her.
Daughter of an American diplomat, Gittings was born in Vienna in 1932. She founded the New York branch of the Daughters of Bilitis in 1958 and edited the nationwide lesbian organization's monthly publication, the Ladder, from 1963 to 1966. For many years, she headed the American Library Association's Task Force on Gay Liberation, working to balance the LGBT information found in libraries at one time solely under abnormal psychology or sexual perversion. She helped organize gay/lesbian demonstrations at the Pentagon and Independence Hall in the 1960s, years before Stonewall, and appeared on a television program about lesbianism, hosted by David Susskind, in the early 1970s.
Gittings was an occasional visitor to Cherry Grove.
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August 6, 2006
Relatives & Friends Celebrate Anthony Ciancarelli’s Life
Friends and relatives, including his mother, Rose, gathered at the dock in Cherry Grove to celebrate the life of Anthony Ciancarelli, who passed away last November. The memorial was organized by Amelia Migliaccio, who had been Anthony’s friend and, for 22 years, his business partner at Top of the Bay restaurant.
After a tape of Schubert’s “Ave Maria” was played and Rev. Dr. Charles Whipple spoke, Anthony’s survivor, Charlie, and old friends Cindy, Sam, Eric, and Charityin the high mourning drag Anthony had made her promise to wear to his memorial--offered reminiscences, as did Anthony’s niece and nephew.
The assembled tossed rose petals into the bay in Anthony’s memory and repaired for a reception to Cherry’s, where a photomontage of his life was displayed, and drank a champagne toast in his honor.
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July 15, 2006
Friends Hold Memorial in the Grove for Hurricane David West
Friends of Hurricane David West, who passed away on April 6, gathered in Cherry Grove on July 15 to remember him at a reception at Fantasia, hosted by Jack Ebert and Bob Lerch, and a ceremony in David’s neighbor, Bruce Miller’s garden at Babes in Toyland. David’s mother, Mitzi LaManna; friends Shelley and Jim Helsel, Peter Mommers, Jonathan Lane, Yasmina, Hector, and David; and the Grove’s Susan Ann Thornton and Nancy Adams, Bob Levine and Michael Fitzgerald, and Freddy Scarfone were among those present. Ms. LaManna and David’s friends spoke at the ceremony. Shelley spread David’s ashes at a site, in the garden, decorated with flowers, stones, shells and a toy piano. This part of the memorial concluded with the assembled singing, “For He’s a Jolly Good Fellow” in tribute to David.
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June 26, 2006
Eric Rofes
Noted gay, AIDS, leather and bear activist, organizer, writer and educator Eric Rofes passed away in Provincetown on June 26, according to New York LGBT Community Center Executive Director Richard D. Burns and to Ethan Jacobs in Boston publication Bay Windows. Born in Brooklyn in August 1954, Eric was a founder of Gay Community News, Boston, in the 1970s; Executive Director of the Los Angeles Gay and Lesbian Community Services Center in the 1980s; and Executive Director of the Shanti Project, providing housing for People with AIDS/HIV in San Francisco, in the 1990s. His last book was “A Radical Rethinking of Sexuality and Schooling: Status Quo or Status Queer?” published in 2005 by Rowman & Littlefield. He is survived by his long-term partner Crispin Hollings, said an obituary by Douglas Martin in the New York Times.
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June 4, 2006
Grove Takes to the Beach for Tribute
to Maggie McCorkle
Friends and neighbors of Maggie McCorkle, who passed away last October 15, gathered at the beach off Sea Walk to pay tribute to Cherry Grove’s beloved thespian. Fire Department members Michael Romanelli, Arthur Cohen and Jill Navarra were in attendance in uniform.
Maggie’s long-time life partner, Audrey Hartmann, offered, “She is in all our hearts.” Close friend Lois Fisher said, “You get up one morning and you have no idea you’re going to meet someone who will change your life foreverthat’s what happened when I met Maggie,” which was when Lois was a newcomer to New York from San Francisco. Six months later, Maggie brought her to Fire Island for the first time. “She’ll always be here and she’ll always be with us,” Lois added. Lois’ partner, Barbara Dowd, said, “Maggie and I did not start out liking each other, but we ended up loving each other very deeply.”
“If it weren’t for Maggie, I would never have set foot on any stage anywhere. She gave me such confidence,” said Joan Van Ness. Lynne Tunderman spoke of coming to the beach with Maggie one Thanksgiving morning and seeing a pod of whales breaching the ocean. Ruth Freedner, Susan Ann Thornton, painter Renée, Lisa Jacobsen, Rae DeStefano and Barbara Hirsch were others who shared memories.
After the speeches, the assembled scattered rose petals in the waves in Maggie’s memory and repaired to Nightwood, the home that she and Audrey had shared, named for Djuna Barnes’ novel, for a reception and photo montage of different periods in Maggie’s interesting and varied life.
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May 29, 2006
Grove Remembers Losses at Memorial Day Service
photos by Joseph R. Saporito
On May 29 at the Community House, Cherry Grove held its annual Memorial Day Service, coordinated by the Cherry Grove Fire Department’s Dominic DeSantis, who introduced the proceedings by saying, “We try to make this not a sad presentation, but an uplifting presentation.”
John Nieman, at the piano, put us in a contemplative mood with Frédéric Chopin’s Prélude, Opus 28, Number 4, and Sammy Fain and Irving Kahal’s “I’ll Be Seeing You,” which he had called late Grove thespian Maggie McCorkle’s favorite song.
Cherry Grove Community Association President Roland Michely offered, “Maggie was a well-known and well-liked personality in this community” and continued, “We convey condolences to her longtime partner, Audrey Hartmann.” Entitling his speech “How We Are Being Remembered,” he declared, “The only immortality we know is how we have affected others.”
In her address, “To Celebrate the Newest Angels in Heaven,” Arts Project of Cherry Grove President Ceejay Rosen saluted not only those the Grove has lost, but also the “men and women stationed in Iraq and Afghanistan.”
Nonagenarian Reverend Dr. Charles Whipple recalled the Monster’s Joe Scialo and Michael’s restaurant’s Rocco Rizzi, as well as Bill Whiter, late performer Tom “Dixie” Thomas’ partner, and called Maggie “a very special and devoted member of this community. One could almost call her Miss Cherry Grove.”
Rick Reder, wearing a rainbow skullcap, recited the Mourner’s Kaddish, the Jewish prayer for the dead, in Aramaic and John Nieman, his partner, repeated it in English. Dr. Whipple led the assembled in the Lord’s Prayer.
Dominic read the names of others taken from the community, including Russell Webster, Alice Eastman, Top of the Bay’s Anthony Ciancarelli, teacher and singer Joe Agosta, photographer Margaret Robbins, and Steven Behan.
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April 7, 2006
“Hurricane” David West
A cheerful, colorful figure around the Grove and New York City, “Hurricane” David West, handsome actor (who once appeared in a show with Quentin Crisp), model and body-builder, “passed away in his sleep on April 7,” according to close friend Shelley Helsel. David had been undergoing treatment for bladder cancer. “He will be sorely missed by all who knew him,” Shelley added. “Hurricane” David was a candidate for Mr. Fire Island Leather in 2004 and cut an impressive figure in the contest.
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April 29, 2006
Stonewall Vets Remember Hurricane David
On March 29, Hurricane David West, who was born on December 15, 1952, went into Beth Israel Hospital, where he died at 5 a.m. on April 7. His mother, Mitzi LaManna, and close friends were with him.
The Stonewall Veterans Association (SVA), which he had served as public relations officer, honored his memory at the LGBT Community Center, in Manhattan, on April 29. The memorial began with the playing of a recording of “Heaven Must Be Missing an Angel,” a song that David liked. SVA founder and treasurer Williamson Henderson, announced the organization’s intention to have a car, carrying a large photo of David, at the head of its LGBT Pride contingent, where David customarily marched.
Addressing the assembled, Ms. LaManna said that, as a young boy, David had asked to borrow $2 to pay for a replacement for a neighbor’s window, which he had broken. He was soon ready to repay her, but she told him to keep the money instead, saying, “Your honesty is worth more than $2.” A rainbow bouquet of flowers, displayed in David’s memory, inspired her to remark, “David is on the rainbow, dancing his heart out,” adding, “David was very proud of who he was.” She nearly brought the crowd, including many of David’s longtime friends, to tears when she said, “The night before he died, he feebly squeezed my hand and tried to say, ‘I love you, ma’.”
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March 4, 2006
Joe Agosta
Handsome teacher, actor and singer Joe Agosta, veteran of a number of Arts Project of Cherry Grove shows, had a massive heart attack and passed away in New York City on March 4, according to John DeMarco.
Joe was co-director, with John, of “Vegas Dreams” and had also performed with him in cabaret shows in Manhattan and at the Ice Palace in Cherry Grove. Joe appeared as well in Sal Piro’s show “Some Like It Holy,” as a member of the doo-wop group the Grovetones, along with Isaac Steven , John, Carl Luss, Gary Greene, and this writer. In the accompanying photo, by Joe Saporito, Joe Agosta appears in the Carmen Miranda tribute number "Weekend in Havana," with Tony Bondi .
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December 3, 2005
Grovites Remember Maggie McCorkle
On the crisp morning of December 3, many Grovites turned out at the Quaker Friends Meeting House, on Rutherford Place, off East 15th Street, in Manhattan, to celebrate the life and honor the memory of beloved Grove citizen and thespian Margaret (Maggie) Olwen McCorkle (February 20, 1924-October 15, 2005).
Thom “Panzi” Hansen, moderating the memorial program in full drag, called Maggie the “heart and soul of Cherry Grove” and compared the Grove without her to “Paris without the Eiffel Tower.” On first meeting her, Panzi said, “Maggie immediately became very special to my heart.” Styling her “my mentor,” “who changed my life,” Panzi declared, “Maggie, to me, is a saint.”
Audrey Hartmann, Maggie’s erstwhile long time life partner, said they first met when both worked for impresario Sol Hurok and met again at the “notorious Bagatelle bar.” Audrey reminisced about dancing with Maggie at Duffy’s Hotel in the Grove and noted, “We endured a love for each other and a friendship over all these years.” Maggie’s ex, Julie, commented, “I know, wherever she is, she’s putting on a hell of a show.”
“Maggie was my closest friend. She made me feel very special. I didn’t realize she was making everyone else feel special, too,” quipped Lois Fisher, despite the overwhelming emotion of the day for her. At 12 Step meetings, Lois said, “Maggie was always the warmest and friendliest to me … I adored her,” she continued and, though a stab at being lovers did not work out, “We stayed bosom buddies for the rest of her life.” Of Maggie’s accomplishments on the Grove stage, Lois exclaimed, “In my mind, she’ll always be a star!” Said Barbara Dowd, “She was part of Lois’ and my family. Maggie loved us, she loved Cherry Grove and Cherry Grove loved her back.”
Susan Freedner spoke of Maggie encouraging her to participate in Arts Project of Cherry Grove shows and, when Susan had trouble making a love duet, “People Will Say We’re in Love,” with a particularly difficult partner persuasive, reminded her, “That’s why they call it acting.” Other speakers included Rae De Stefano, Jeannie Lieberman, Tim Webster, Tommy Tush and, in from Ireland, Alice Carey.
The memorial which, fittingly, boasted a printed program in the form of a playbill, concluded with the screening of clippings from Arts Project shows, assembled by Tim Webster and David Bullock, coordinated by Rae De Stefano, and shown by Matt Baney and Wendy Lewis, and featuring Maggie's upbeat "Cherry Grove's My Home," sentimental "I'll Be Seeing You" with the full company of "Radiola" (1987), throaty Marlene Dietrich tribute "Lili Marlene," and swaggering "I'm One of the Girls Who's One of the Boys."
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November 22 2005
Anthony Ciancarelli
Anthony Ciancarelli, who had co-owned Top of the Bay restaurant with Amelia Migliaccio, passed away on November 22, according to Charity. "I will always remember him as a good and loving friend," Charity said, adding, "May he rest in peace."
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October 15, 2005
Maggie McCorkle
Maggie McCorkle, a pillar of the Cherry Grove community, passed away in New York City on October 15. She had had a massive stroke and had long suffered the effects of rheumatoid arthritis as a result of having had Lyme disease. Audrey Hartmann, her erstwhile longtime partner, was with her when she died, according to Joan Van Ness.
Maggie was involved with the Arts Project of Cherry Grove, which was founded in 1948, from its inception and participated in many theatrical productions. Her final show, in 1998, was Sal Piro’s “You Go Girl!!” in which her solo song was “(She’s just my) Jill,” a tailor-made parody of “Bill,” from “Showboat.” She came to most subsequent shows to cheer the cast on and was always welcomed backstage as she offered words of encouragement.
It is safe to say that Maggie McCorkle will be sorely missed.
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September 27 2005
Margaret Robbins
Photographer Margaret Robbins, who was a resident of the Grove in seasons past, passed away on September 27. Her work had been displayed in Arts Project of Cherry Grove art shows and she also participated in stage works, such as Sal Piro's "You Go Girl!!" in 1998. In that musical, she was responsible for the lines "And in the winter, she'll shovel the ice/And lovingly set out the traps for the mice" in the song "It Takes a Woman," from "Hello, Dolly." At one performance, she sang "she'll shovel the snow," instead of "the ice," then realized that, as the last word was supposed to rhyme with the next line's "mice" and now it wouldn't, started to laugh at her own faux pas. At Sal's traditional closing party "Sally Awards," he gave Margaret the "snow and ice" award to commemorate the occasion.
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September 24 2005
Franklin Fulton Memorial
LA “Quaker-style” memorial for Franklin Fulton, of Holly House, was held on the deck at Paul Jablonski’s home, Bottoms Up, on September 24. Reminiscences, many celebrating Frank’s sense of humor, were offered by Paul, Frank’s longtime New York City neighbor and friend Bill, Joan Van Ness, Glenn Boles, Dr. Charles Whipple, Trish Lagattuta, Jeanne Skinner, Tim Webster, Dominic De Santis, Roland Michely, Warren Boyd Wexler, Bill “Violet” Silver, Charity, and leatherman Andy. A reception, hosted by Bill and Frank and Pierre, followed.
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July 20 2005
Steve Behan
Gentle blond Steve Behan, a fixture at Cherry Grove events, passed away in New York City on July 20. He was 39 years old and is survived by his partner, Ray Baez.
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July 17 2005
Allan Masur
Lawyer Allan A. Masur, who lived in Fire Island Pines and Greenwich Village, passed away suddenly on July 17. He was 81 years old, had been a long-time survivor of lung cancer, and is survived by long-term partner, Jimmy Stewart. A pillar of the Pines community, he was a founder and Chairman of the Board of Trustees of Congregation B’nai Olam, which holds High Holiday services there each September or October. A funeral service was held on July 19 at Riverside Chapel, on the Upper West Side, with Rabbi Hara Person, of B’nai Olam, officiating.
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June 5 2005
Jerry Ehrlich Memorial
On June 5, a bayside memorial and reception honoring Jerry Ehrlich, who passed away on April 23, took place at the home of Jerry and surviving life partner Bruce Miller’s friends Mel Rock and Don Robb. Wendy Lewis and this writer chanted the Kaddish, the Jewish prayer for the dead, in Jerry’s memory; Dan Evans, of the Fire Island Tide, spoke about him; and Wendy offered a poem about him on Bruce’s behalf.
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June 4 2005
Jackie Petersen Memorial
On June 4, family, friends and Cherry Grove Fire Department colleagues gathered at the beach to honor the memory of Jacqueline Helen (“Jackie”) Petersen (February 27, 1939-December 11, 2004) with readings, prayers, and, on recordings, “Amazing Grace,” Bette Midler singing “Wind Beneath My Wings” and Sarah Brightman singing “Time to Say Goodbye” (“Con te partiro”). As Jackie had requested, her ashes, which were accompanied by white carnations, were scattered in the ocean. A reception at the firehouse followed.
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June 4, 2005
Activist Jean O’Leary
Lesbian activist Jean O’Leary passed away on June 4 at the age of 57. She was born upstate New York, became known for her activism in New York City, and later relocated to Palm Springs.
I first met Jean in Brooklyn Heights in 1971, at an early meeting of an organization called Gay Alliance of Brooklyn (GAB), founded by the Community Relations Committee of Gay Activists Alliance (GAA), for which I served as committee vice-chair. She immediately became a visible and vocal member of GAB and soon joined GAA and its Lesbian Liberation Committee (LLC), also started by Community Relations. LLC broke off from GAA and became Lesbian Feminist Liberation (LFL), which Jean headed.
Jean’s nascent activism came at a particularly volatile time in the Gay and Lesbian Movement, when lesbians were striving to forge a political identity distinct from that of gay men. Drag, often commonly called female impersonation, was one sticking point. At a Gay and Lesbian Pride Rally in Washington Square Park in 1973, when not only Bette Midler, but also Billy & Tiffany, a pair of drag entertainers, were scheduled to sing, Jean made a controversial speech declaring, “We don’t want to be impersonated!” Billy Blackwell and Tiffany were shouted off the stage and the rally nearly degenerated into quarreling and chaos, until Midler arrived and calmed the crowd somewhat by singing “Friends.”
With former GAA President, the late Bruce Voeller, Jean co-founded the National Gay Task Force, later National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, an organization some of us considered conservative in the mid and late 1970s. She organized the first meeting ever of gay and lesbian organization leaders at the White House, during Jimmy Carter’s presidency, and the first National Coming Out Day.
A former nun, Jean discussed convent life and coming out in a chapter of Rosemary Curb and Nancy Manahan’s book “Lesbian Nuns: Breaking Silence.”
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June, 2005
Bill Whiter
For many years a resident of Cherry Grove and Manhattan, then Queens, with his late long-term life partner, Tom “Dixie” Thomas, Bill Whiter passed away mid-June, Bobbie “Cobra” Scherffius and Victor Alfieri reported. Bill and Dixie’s house on Bayview, near downtown Cherry Grove, was called Dixieland. Bill was in his early 60s and his ashes were interred at Dixie’s final resting place in Virginia.
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May 30, 2005
Memorial Day Service, Cherry Grove
Remembering the many friends and neighbors recently lost, Cherry Grove held its annual Memorial Day service at the Community House on May 30. Cherry Grove Community Association President Warren Michely recalled, in particular, Wally Forstell, late Cherry Grove Property Owners Association President, and extended sympathies to his life partner, Jack Dowling. Arts Project of Cherry Grove President Wendy Lewis read “If I Knew (it would be the last time),” a piece in memory of lost loved ones.
Pianist David Clenny played Beethoven’s Sonata Quasi una Fantasia, Chopin’s Nocture in D-flat Major, and the andante cantabile movement of Mozart’s 21st Piano Concerto.
Injecting a note of wry humor into the solemn proceedings and quoting the Queen of England, Rev. Dr. Charles Whipple called this a “horrible year” in his personal life, as well as for the community and, mentioning those who had moved away in addition to those who died, recalled that Martha Stewart once visited former Grovites Chris Giftos and Richard Albano. Rev. Whipple also paid tribute to the late Steve Wells, Joe Scialo, Frank Fulton, artist and illustrator Bill Seay, Jackie Petersen and Jerry Ehrlich.
Dominic DeSantis read a list of the departed, including the aforementioned; Tom DeConza; and Amy Rosen and SallyAnn Piacentino’s pet greyhound, Kayla.
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May 16, 2005
Wallace Forstell
Wallace (Wally) Forstell, of Greenwich Village and Cherry Grove, born on March 26, 1936, passed away on May 16 after a long period of illness. His long-term life partner, Jack Dowling, survives him. Wally was President of the Cherry Grove Property Owners Association, an organization that has been succeeded by the Cherry Grove Community Association. He will be sincerely missed.
(photo provided by Jack Dowling)
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May 2, 2005
Jack Nichols
photo by Roy Blakey; Nichols (r) with life-partner Clarke
Early gay activist and author Jack Nichols [who wrote "Welcome to Fire Island"], born in Washington D.C. in 1938, died of cancer in Florida on May 2. In the late 1960s and early 1970s, with his long-time lover Elijah Hadynn “Lige” Clarke, he edited Gay newspaper and wrote a column for Screw magazine and, for St. Martin’s Press, a book entitled “I Have More Fun With You Than Anybody.” Jack, who had been assistant to the Washington Bureau Chief of the New York Post and was a co-founder of Washington and Florida branches of the Mattachine Society, wrote “Men’s Liberation: a New Definition of Masculinity,” published by Penguin Books, and “Welcome to Fire Island: Visions of Cherry Grove and the Pines,” published by St. Martin’s, after Lige’s death in 1975.
“Cherry Grove does inspire pride. It is, without doubt, one of the proudest communities in America,” wrote Jack, in “Welcome to Fire Island.” “[T]here are heavy does of romanticism in the Grove or The Pines, wherever there’s moonlight, and where people make love at leisure, sun themselves, and bathe in chilly tides. But Cherry Grove is romantic in other ways. It glitters on any clear summer night, its flags … wave noticeably in evening gales, and its houses give off the sounds and appearances of joyful movement.”
Of the Grove’s sister community, he wrote, “The Pines is rather like a well-bred debutante aware of her price for time spent … I think that the debutante will get with it and try another pose when the beautiful people she pursues see that moneymakers aren’t giving anybody the prosperity they’re supposed to guarantee … To be too rich may … mean being despised or, at least, suspect, and no pretty deb wants that!”
Activists Kay Tobin and Randy Wicker included an interview with Lige and Jack in their book “The Gay Crusaders,” published by Paperback Library in 1972.
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April, 2005
Jerry Ehrlich
New York City and Cherry Grove resident Jerry Ehrlich passed away on Fire Island on April 23. He is survived by his life partner, Bruce Miller, and by numerous friends, and had been a long-time survivor of AIDS. A member of the Imperial Court of New York and the Arts Project of Cherry Grove, Jerry served the latter as Theater Curator of the Community House. He is also fondly remembered as an avid gardener and a creative chef who, notably, sometimes used edible gold in the icing of cakes that he baked. In the accompanying photo, Jerry (right) is shown with Bruce at the Imperial Court’s gala Night of a Thousand Gowns on April 2, 2005.
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April, 2005
Tom De Conza
Chelsea and Cherry Grove resident Tom De Conza, also known as Imperial Court of New York Emperor VII Tomas, passed away in April after a hospitalization that kept him from attending the Court’s Night of a Thousand Gowns (NOATG) earlier this month. Tom had been a long-time survivor of AIDS and lung cancer. The accompanying photo shows Tom (center) at NOATG 2004.
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January 10, 2005
Laurie Linton
Lawyer, activist and long-time Pines resident Laurie Linton passed away in New York City on January 10, at age 46, after a long illness. Among her survivors is her life partner Murphy. She was a founder of Empire State Pride Agenda, a Board Member of the Stonewall Community Foundation, and, during her career, held positions with the New York State Attorney General’s and Governor’s Offices and the New York City Human Resources Administration and Comptroller’s Office. She is shown here with colleagues at the Attorney General’s Office Lesbian and Gay Caucus’ LGBT Pride celebration in June 1993.
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December 11, 2004
Jackie Petersen
Jackie Petersen, who was dock mistress Sheila's significant other, passed away on December 11 after a long illness and will be greatly missed by Cherry Grove.
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December 11, 2004
Franklin Fulton - Memorial
Franklin Fulton, proprietor of Holly House in Cherry Grove, passed away recently. A memorial service was held at the Church of the Ascension in Greenwich Village on December 11.
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December 5, 2004
Joyful Memorial Held for Monster's Joe Scialo
On December 5, a celebration of the life of Joseph Vincent known as Joe Scialo (July 2, 1935 - November 20, 2004) was held at his bar/piano bar/disco The Monster ... MORE
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